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Walking to ROMe for ANne and CharitiEs - 631 miles completed, 669 miles left – almost half way

returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-24 19:37
Subject: 631 miles completed, 669 miles left – almost half way
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This has been the most difficult week, emotionally and physically, since I left the UK.  

Emotionally, because on Thursday it would have been our 32nd wedding anniversary and although I think about Anne everyday it was a very low day as it reminded me just how much I miss her.

Physically, I put in some extra hours walking and have managed to complete 130 miles since my last diary update. I am now about 30 miles ahead of my expected total and am nearly half way to Rome. Unfortunately, the old bones have started to feel the pressure and I did pick up a small injury which is annoying more than painful, but it seems to be settling down.

My weekend in the village of Ushaix near Orange was terrific and gave me a chance to recharge my batteries, meet some new friends, enjoy home cooking and visit historic sites such as Pont du Gard an ancient roman aqueduct, the dukes palace in Uzez (only from the outside as he was not in residence) and the roman theatre in Orange. This theatre is one of the few preserved examples of its type in the world and is host to stars from the world of opera etc every year oh yes and I still managed to do some walking in the countryside.

I have already emailed my friend in Gosport to thank her for arranging the stay with her mother and family but I also wanted to reflect it in my diary – thank you Magali.

On Monday I moved on to Avignon, another historic city with plenty to see and over the 2 days I was there managed to get in a lot of miles of walking. The old part of the city is surrounded by a wall within which is the Palais des Papes (Palace of the Popes) and the Notre-Dame des Doms cathedral. Other sites included the Pont Saint Benezet, a bridge which reaches half way across the Rhone. The Mistral wind was blowing at quite a pace, at times reaching 50 – 70 kilometres per hour which made walking interesting but at least it took the edge of the heat from the sun and I did not realise how long I had been walking for because it was so enjoyable.

On Wednesday afternoon I moved onto Aix-en-Provence which involved a brief stopover in Marseilles to change from train to bus to complete the last part of the journey. By the time I had found out where my hotel was I only had time to do a couple of hours walking before it started to get dark but at least I could find my bearings. Wednesday enabled me to enjoy a nice day of walking around Aix before going out into the country towards the Bibemus Quarries. Here Cezanne painted and it is where the stone used to build the monuments within the city was quarried. Later in the day I headed in the other direction, following the main roads until I reached the motorway.

On Thursday it was time to move onto my next port of call, Cannes. Having checked out of the hotel I was walking to Aix railway station to catch the bus to Aix TGV station when it started to rain. What was really annoying was that once I reached the station I was informed that I had to go the Gare routiere (bus station) which was back past the hotel I had only left 20 minutes before. I was not impressed as I was wet with my main rucksack and a day rucksack I had recently purchased to carry and no opportunity to get the waterproofs out from the bottom of the rucksack.

The journey to Cannes was a chance to relax and take in the scenery, firstly back to Marseilles then onwards via Toulon and St Raphael to Cannes and the Cote d’Azur where the sun was shining but the wind was as strong as ever and forecast to get even stronger. Nowhere near as bad as it appeared to be in the UK or northern parts of France though.

Other things to happen this week included news that I had been nominated by one of the charities for Britain’s most inspirational fundraiser award which is being awarded by The Sun newspaper and EveryClick.com in memory of Jane Tomlinson.

Jane was a lady who although I never met her, I had a lot of respect for and I had read one of her books when planning my walk – she had cycled from Rome to the UK. When I held the press launch for my walk last September, I stated that Anne and Jane were two of the most courageous people I had every come across and their courage had convinced me that it was possible to achieve my aim. Even if I do not win the award, the fact that people feel highly enough of me to nominate me has given me a tremendous boost just when I needed it.

Many of you who read these diary updates do so via Live Journal which a friend of mine back in the UK kindly updates for me – thanks Kay you are a star. As a result of the walk being promoted on the headline page of Live Journal earlier this week, I have had many people from around the world (over 500) adding my site to their own links, many sending words of support and some making donations. In fact, in less than four days the amount raised increased by over £300 as a result of donations from people from as far away as the USA, China and Australia.

I also want to thank another friend who posts the diaries on my site and maintains it for me in my absence – thanks Andrew, several people have contacted me to say they like the site and find it easy to navigate around.

Thank you everybody for your support and please keep those donations coming both from around the world and the UK. Together I know we can reach the £50,000 target for the charities and for Anne.

 

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thepixy: fae
User: [info]thepixy
Date: 2008-03-24 19:44 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:fae

To everyone who has left messages of support for my good friend Nigel I wanted to say thanks :) Also, if any of you are on facebook perhaps you could join the group I have created - I'm hoping that if people join, it will help to spread the word about what Nigel is doing: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=7638180998

Thanks all and keep going Nige! xxx

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秘密結社コドモ
User: [info]sammet
Date: 2008-03-24 20:11 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Good luck on your journey, man. <3

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f_o_o_l
User: [info]f_o_o_l
Date: 2008-03-24 20:22 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

good luck, and god bless

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btani
User: [info]btani
Date: 2008-03-24 20:38 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Is such a beautiful journey : ) My love died 2 years ago - time is the best healer - you never completely heal, but it becomes bearable some how - don't ask me how.

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returntoromance
User: [info]returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-29 19:57 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

When Anne died so many people said to me that you'll get over it but you never do. I think you just learn to hide the bad days better.

I am sorry for your loss and as I said in a recent newspaper interview if my walk helps just one person it will have been worth it

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-I'm just overkill
User: [info]agape_selfless
Date: 2008-03-24 21:37 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

You are beyond an amazing person.


Good for you.


Prayers.

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Heav
User: [info]heather_davis
Date: 2008-03-24 22:19 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Wow! This is amazing! I would gladly donate money if I had some. I'm really bummed out that I don't. It's amazing to me to see someone with such courage! I wish I had that much. You truely are an inspiration. Thank you!

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Chelsea
User: [info]rchelsea2005
Date: 2008-03-24 22:35 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Your story is amazing. You're in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you have the continued strength you need to finish your journey, and to tell people your story.

Wishing you health and healing, my friend.

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bovasso
User: [info]bovasso
Date: 2008-03-24 23:16 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

This is absolutely darling! As many said, you are an inspiration. :)

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PULP-FREE FICTION
User: [info]mollyrocket
Date: 2008-03-25 04:18 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

I just subscribed to your blog and want to lend my verbal support- keep in the good work. We are all so inspired by your endeavor. Anne would be pleased, touched, and honored.

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daisygatsby
User: [info]daisygatsby
Date: 2008-03-25 04:58 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Dear Nigel, what you are doing is simply inspirational! You are continuing the good fight that your wife, Anne, had put up and my prayers are with you. "Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid nor be dismayed. for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9. You are a fighter! :))

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douglass7269
User: [info]douglass7269
Date: 2008-03-25 11:48 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

I love that verse... I hope Nigel does too!

Isn't it amazing what God can do with Love?

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returntoromance
User: [info]returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-25 13:36 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

I did like the verse and I won't give up.

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douglass7269
User: [info]douglass7269
Date: 2008-03-25 13:39 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

awesome!

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mahnoosh
User: [info]mahnoosh
Date: 2008-03-25 12:50 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Your act of courage and love for your wife touched me. I really have no words to describe what I'm feeling right now. I spent most of my day feeling depressed because I couldn't get over a small problem of mine. You on the other hand, are walking halfway across a continent for the memory of someone you loved. Suddenly, my problem vanished and all I could think of was you. May God bless you in your endeavour.

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douglass7269
User: [info]douglass7269
Date: 2008-03-25 13:48 (UTC)
Subject: Happy Easter

I hope you had a wonderful holiday, and that the weather was nice for you! Did you have a chance, or people around you to celebrate? I hope so.

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returntoromance
User: [info]returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-25 15:22 (UTC)
Subject: Re: Happy Easter

Sadly I was on my own but the weather was terrific as I had just arrived in Cannes on the south coast of France and at the same time having passed the half way point of my walk had a glass of red wine to celebrate.

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douglass7269
User: [info]douglass7269
Date: 2008-03-25 15:54 (UTC)
Subject: Re: Happy Easter

sounds good excepting the red wine part..no mater what drink it is, I have yet to find an alchoholic beverage that I enjoy the taste of... oh well at least I'll never get addicted right?

I'm excited to hear about more of you journey... please keep updating, and often if you can.

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User: [info]linus_d
Date: 2008-03-25 18:16 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

You have my utmost respect sir :)

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twernip: proud
User: [info]twernip
Date: 2008-03-25 19:20 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:proud

Wow...simply, wow. This is an amazing thing that you're doing :)

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katze! rocked that heart™
User: [info]untilitallends
Date: 2008-03-25 19:26 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

'Mazing :) good luck & much respect.

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mistressplum
User: [info]mistressplum
Date: 2008-03-26 00:05 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Just to let you know, i found your diary entries a couple of weeks ago and you are in my thoughts. Hope the weather stays reasonable for you, what an amazing journey - the sights must be amazing. I myself lost my mum to cancer in 'O6 and I have nothing but respect for what you are doing.

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valloir: Awesome
User: [info]valloir
Date: 2008-03-26 00:46 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:Awesome

This is such an amazing journey you're on!
congratulations and good luck!

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SpinSwimScream
User: [info]spinswimscream
Date: 2008-03-26 02:26 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

you are an amazing person, good look to you

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La Kinkasulka: contemplate
User: [info]green_rusalki
Date: 2008-03-26 03:21 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:contemplate

I hope everyone can find someone who loves them as much as you love your wife

beautiful; good luck. :)

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glenlochlodge
User: [info]glenlochlodge
Date: 2008-03-26 12:49 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Good luck on the remaining portion of your journey.

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marmite1991
User: [info]marmite1991
Date: 2008-03-26 13:59 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Hiya,
I just want to say that it an amazing thing that you are doing and I wish you the very best on your journey, physically and emotionally.
May Your Swords Stay Sharp,
Charlotte

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Devi Serene
User: [info]devi_serene
Date: 2008-03-26 16:05 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

You really are an amazing person, and I wish you good luck.

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Pixie in Space!: My faire England!
User: [info]deltagrl
Date: 2008-03-26 16:46 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:My faire England!

Hi, there. I am intrigued by this journal and was wondering if it was okay to friend you. Thanks!

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returntoromance
User: [info]returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-26 17:45 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

I think that this account has been set up so that everybody can add it as a friend. If not please feel free to do so.

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Pixie in Space!: hugs
User: [info]deltagrl
Date: 2008-03-27 02:37 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:hugs

I've done so, and have gotten all caught up on the entries. It really is wonderful and I applaud you. I hope you win that award, and I also hope this helps you as much as the money toward the charities will help others! :)

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themagicthimble
User: [info]themagicthimble
Date: 2008-03-26 19:41 (UTC)
Subject: Walking for Anne

I was deciding whether or not to continue on blogger or not. I was just goofing around and trying to find some reason to continue my blogging.. does anybody read it? Is it that interesting? Perhaps on some days.. Then I spotted your blog and read your recent entries. Bless your heart this is the most loving moment, discovering your writings and walking for Anne. I am so completely touched by your "walkabout". Stay safe, stay strong, keep doing what you're doing, you are helping so many people.

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User: [info]0nef00tin
Date: 2008-03-26 21:12 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

May God bless you and heal every wound inside and out. ♥ Many prayers for you.

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Persephone's daughter
User: [info]oxoniana
Date: 2008-03-27 03:16 (UTC)
Subject: Awe inspiring

How brave and positive to take to the road like you have- I so admire you for making your grief CONstructive instead of DEstructive. You are an example to many, and I think your wife would be very moved and proud to know you were doing this for her.

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r l c: i burned it
User: [info]superhiprachel
Date: 2008-03-27 05:02 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Keyword:i burned it

Just another note of well wishes - I hope you enjoyed your brief stay in Aix; I have many fond memories there.

Also, here's hoping your injury doesn't cause any setbacks and you're on the mend!

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returntoromance
User: [info]returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-27 17:22 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Thanks for your message. I did enjoy the brief visit to Aix and managed to walk about 40 miles during the 2 days I had there. THe injury is still there but is more annoying than painful and I can still walk 10-12 miles a day so am still on track. Even if I had to crawl on hands and knees I will get to Rome.

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the duke of oyster
User: [info]thedukeofoyster
Date: 2008-03-27 09:09 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

you are the man!! good luck!

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green_sarahbean
User: [info]green_sarahbean
Date: 2008-03-27 16:46 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

You have such a beautiful heart... <3

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jodienessxo
User: [info]jodieness
Date: 2008-03-27 19:10 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Just read this, it's truely amazing and just shows what a great person you truely are, i know you will finish this and it is absoloutly amazing what you are doing. Keep posting (:
Jodieness!;xo
xxx

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returntoromance
User: [info]returntoromance
Date: 2008-03-29 19:49 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Thanks for the encouragmement. Only another 5 days and I leave France and start the Italian leg.

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lovetypething07
User: [info]lovetypething07
Date: 2008-03-27 20:03 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)

Good luck in everything, I love reading this blog this is an awesome thing that you're doing.

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Hhrath Venomgaze: Jhereg Profile
User: [info]obsidianflames
Date: 2008-03-31 18:20 (UTC)
Subject: Best wishes to you
Keyword:Jhereg Profile

I have been reading this blog since it was focused on the LJ mainpage, and while I am normally one who ignores such things as random spam, something told me to click.

First, I wish you the best on your journey. Your story is inspiring, and your willingness to make good on a promise of the heart gives me hope for people in a world where most of the news is disheartening.

Second, as one who has lost a few wonderful people to things far out of my control, I do wish you the peace of heart to ease the pain and the strength of heart to hold on to those memories that keep you walking, long after your trip reaches Rome.

Be safe and may Grandfather watch over you.

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